Alkesah, ada seorang boss.
Di suatu pagi di hujung minggu, di kala boss sedang bercuti, boss terima khabar ada timbul masalah di tempat kerja. Masalah itu bukan masalah baru, kadang2 memang boleh berlaku. Tetapi selain dari itu, boss diberitahu ada juga masalah kedua yang telah timbul, yang berpunca akibat dari kecuaian anak2 buah boss.
Boss naik angin lah.
Boss mulalah membebel. "Aku dah cakap kat diorang ni berkali2, jangan buat begitu, jangan buat begini. Budak2 ni degil juga. Tak mahu dengar cakap aku. Tak percaya cakap aku. Sekarang dah jadi macam ni. Aku jugak kena pergi selesaikan."
Suami boss yang mendengar di rumah itu mengangguk2 saja melihat boss bersiap2.
"Awak bersiap ni nak ke tempat kerjakah?"
"Yelah, saya nak basuh diorang cukup2!" dengus boss penuh marah.
Selesai bersiap, boss seperti biasa mencium tangan suaminya sebelum keluar. Kemudian dia singgah di bilik mak mertuanya yang kebetulan datang melawat dari kampung. Niat nak beritahu mak, dia terpaksa keluar bekerja pula.
Boss selalu mengingatkan suaminya, orang boleh kata suami itu "boss" kepada isteri, (atau isteri itu boss kepada suami - sukahatilah) tetapi mak tetap big boss kepada kedua2nya.
Tiba di bilik, dilihatnya mak sedang bersolat. Masa itu pukul 10 pagi.
Mula2 boss pelik, tapi terus teringat. Oh, mak solat dhuha.
Tiba2 boss insaf.
Baik boss ambil wudhu dan solat dhuha dulu. Sudahlah pada waktu hari2 bekerja boss memang jarang dapat solat dhuha.
Selepas solat, hati boss automatik tenang.
Boss tukar niat. Baik dia pergi kerja untuk cuba selesaikan masalah yang timbul itu dulu. Kemudian baru dia akan tegur dan tangani isu kecuaian anak buahnya itu. Boss tanam azam akan cuba tangani dengan berhemah dan profesional, tapi tetap tegas. Marah2 sahaja tak ada gunanya. Jiwa boss juga yang bertambah stress.
Boss bersyukur sebelum keluar bekerja dia sempat diingatkan bahawa walaupun dia seorang boss, ada yang lagi boss dari boss2 dan big boss.
Dialah the Almighty Boss, dan kepadaNya lah kita berharap, kepadaNya lah kita berserah.
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Saturday, July 21, 2018
Friday, June 19, 2015
bali break part 2
i went to bali with 2 of my girlfriends in 2007. (actually i didnt even remember the year exactly until i rechecked my previous blog post about the trip).
i remember during one of the taxi rides we took during the trip, the driver, upon finding out that the 3 of us were single (and although we were already working, a lot of them thought we were students)said that we must come again to bali, and that the next trip be a honeymoon trip with our husbands.
it was a great trip, the 3 of us enjoyed it very much, and i vowed to definitely visit bali again.
8 years later (wow) .. i did.
and i did go with a husband! well, my husband. it's our 3rd year of marriage this year, and i consider any trip i take with him where it's just the 2 of us as our honeymoon (awww..!haha).
so we went there a couple of months ago. it was my second time there and it was hubby's first. interestingly though, aside bali, the only other place i've been to in indonesia is batam, while hubby has been to jakarta, bandung, the riau islands, and even lombok. but he said for some reason he was never intrigued about going to bali. i managed to persuade him finally and off we went.
we took malaysia airlines from jb to kl and then to denpasar.
the flight from kl to bali was quite bumpy as there was a lot of turbulence. i'm usually okay with turbulences other that the motion sickness, but in lieu of the terribly unfortunate plane tragedies that shook all of us last year, we were quite worried.. i think many people were too.
anyway, we arrived safely, ahamdulillah, and were in bali for 5 days and 4 nights. we stayed at the grand inna kuta hotel, right by the kuta beach.
we spent 2 days taking day tour trips to kintamani, celuk (got another silver ring to add to my collection), taman ayun, ubud, bedugul, and tanahlot. we tried out the organic bali coffees at 2 places, wedang sari and tegal sari. we tasted the famous luwak coffee, it tasted okay but not all that great. the one who was really excited was actually my husband and not because of the coffee. luwak or civet coffee is special in that it is made from coffee beans that have been eaten by a "musang" or civet, i think it's a type of wild-cat but i may be wrong. the beans go through the animal's digestive tract but they dont get digested, and so when the civet poops, the beans come out together in its droppings. these beans are then cleaned and roasted and grinded, and you get the luwak coffee.
anyway, so hubby wasnt all that excited about the coffee, but he actually fell in love with the luwak or musang itself.why?
because, for some reason, his nickname back in school was apparently musang! some of his school buddies still call him by that name to this day! but this is the first time he actually came real close face-to-face with the animal, and even got to pet the fella, and he was immediately smitten.
and now he's on a quest to finding one to keep as a pet.
oh dear.
back to the trip. this time around i got to see the barong dance. (i saw kecak dance on the last trip)
makan-wise we didnt have much problem. the fast food places are all halal in indonesia. there are a lot more halal warung and restaurants in kuta now i think, compared to the last time i was there. i actually remembered warung nikmat, the halal restaurant i went to on the last trip and went there again. they have actually expanded now and there is now a budget hotel just behind it. the food is still good.
other than that we were mostly out and about town, doing a lot of walking (20k steps per day accordig to the app on my smartphone!) that by the time we get back to the hotel we were too pooped (again with the word-haha) to do anything else. we planned to but didnt even get to swim in the 2 swimming pools that were at the hotel !
we bought a few souvenirs, t-shirts, fridge magnets, but also since we are both nuts about nuts (we love snacking on them) we bought a few different types of bali nuts (their names escape me now) that were really yummy.
the last 2 days of our trip though, hubby had a toothache. it was an old problem, he had seen a dentist and was advised to have the tooth extracted but he kept on postponing it. i have been bugging him to go and take care of it, but of course, he didnt because the pain wasnt always there. so of course, the pain came back while we were on holiday! in bali! no point nagging anymore. but because of the pain we decided to ditch the plan to try the seafood dinner in Jimbaran as some people had suggested to us, because he couldnt chew very well by then and would not be able to enjoy it anyway.
all in all it was a good trip. the flight back was thankfully smooth, and hubby was actually talking about possibly going there again, yay!
note: he went to the dentist a day after we got home and got the tooth taken care of too. hee.. ;)
i remember during one of the taxi rides we took during the trip, the driver, upon finding out that the 3 of us were single (and although we were already working, a lot of them thought we were students)said that we must come again to bali, and that the next trip be a honeymoon trip with our husbands.
it was a great trip, the 3 of us enjoyed it very much, and i vowed to definitely visit bali again.
8 years later (wow) .. i did.
and i did go with a husband! well, my husband. it's our 3rd year of marriage this year, and i consider any trip i take with him where it's just the 2 of us as our honeymoon (awww..!haha).
so we went there a couple of months ago. it was my second time there and it was hubby's first. interestingly though, aside bali, the only other place i've been to in indonesia is batam, while hubby has been to jakarta, bandung, the riau islands, and even lombok. but he said for some reason he was never intrigued about going to bali. i managed to persuade him finally and off we went.
we took malaysia airlines from jb to kl and then to denpasar.
the flight from kl to bali was quite bumpy as there was a lot of turbulence. i'm usually okay with turbulences other that the motion sickness, but in lieu of the terribly unfortunate plane tragedies that shook all of us last year, we were quite worried.. i think many people were too.
anyway, we arrived safely, ahamdulillah, and were in bali for 5 days and 4 nights. we stayed at the grand inna kuta hotel, right by the kuta beach.
we spent 2 days taking day tour trips to kintamani, celuk (got another silver ring to add to my collection), taman ayun, ubud, bedugul, and tanahlot. we tried out the organic bali coffees at 2 places, wedang sari and tegal sari. we tasted the famous luwak coffee, it tasted okay but not all that great. the one who was really excited was actually my husband and not because of the coffee. luwak or civet coffee is special in that it is made from coffee beans that have been eaten by a "musang" or civet, i think it's a type of wild-cat but i may be wrong. the beans go through the animal's digestive tract but they dont get digested, and so when the civet poops, the beans come out together in its droppings. these beans are then cleaned and roasted and grinded, and you get the luwak coffee.
anyway, so hubby wasnt all that excited about the coffee, but he actually fell in love with the luwak or musang itself.why?
because, for some reason, his nickname back in school was apparently musang! some of his school buddies still call him by that name to this day! but this is the first time he actually came real close face-to-face with the animal, and even got to pet the fella, and he was immediately smitten.
and now he's on a quest to finding one to keep as a pet.
oh dear.
back to the trip. this time around i got to see the barong dance. (i saw kecak dance on the last trip)
makan-wise we didnt have much problem. the fast food places are all halal in indonesia. there are a lot more halal warung and restaurants in kuta now i think, compared to the last time i was there. i actually remembered warung nikmat, the halal restaurant i went to on the last trip and went there again. they have actually expanded now and there is now a budget hotel just behind it. the food is still good.
other than that we were mostly out and about town, doing a lot of walking (20k steps per day accordig to the app on my smartphone!) that by the time we get back to the hotel we were too pooped (again with the word-haha) to do anything else. we planned to but didnt even get to swim in the 2 swimming pools that were at the hotel !
we bought a few souvenirs, t-shirts, fridge magnets, but also since we are both nuts about nuts (we love snacking on them) we bought a few different types of bali nuts (their names escape me now) that were really yummy.
the last 2 days of our trip though, hubby had a toothache. it was an old problem, he had seen a dentist and was advised to have the tooth extracted but he kept on postponing it. i have been bugging him to go and take care of it, but of course, he didnt because the pain wasnt always there. so of course, the pain came back while we were on holiday! in bali! no point nagging anymore. but because of the pain we decided to ditch the plan to try the seafood dinner in Jimbaran as some people had suggested to us, because he couldnt chew very well by then and would not be able to enjoy it anyway.
all in all it was a good trip. the flight back was thankfully smooth, and hubby was actually talking about possibly going there again, yay!
note: he went to the dentist a day after we got home and got the tooth taken care of too. hee.. ;)
Monday, December 29, 2014
cerita menjelang tahun baru.
1st year marriage:
mr hubby: sayang, it's so cool that we got married hujung tahun kan. and that your birthday is just a few days after that.. on new year's day! everywhere we go the mood is so festive. and everywhere there's fireworks! love it!
2nd year marriage:
mr hubby: sayang, it's so rugi that we got married hujung tahun kan.and that your birthday is just a few days after that. flights and hotels are so expensive because of the super-peak season it's so difficult to get reservations! dok rumah jelah. celebrate kemudian ok.
moral of the story: takpe, yang penting dia still sayang ;)
happy anniversary, baby.
mr hubby: sayang, it's so cool that we got married hujung tahun kan. and that your birthday is just a few days after that.. on new year's day! everywhere we go the mood is so festive. and everywhere there's fireworks! love it!
2nd year marriage:
mr hubby: sayang, it's so rugi that we got married hujung tahun kan.and that your birthday is just a few days after that. flights and hotels are so expensive because of the super-peak season it's so difficult to get reservations! dok rumah jelah. celebrate kemudian ok.
moral of the story: takpe, yang penting dia still sayang ;)
happy anniversary, baby.
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
winds of change
no. this is not a political post.
it has been a year since my last entry here, you think i would waste in on politics?
but since we mentioned it, i would just like to mention here that it was my 3rd time voting (made me feel like a veteran) and somehow, this time around, the election day and the days going to it felt really ""festive".
maybe because there were way more voters this time.. with many having to "balik kampung" to vote, plans were made to book leaves or change calls (for those of us having to do oncalls), travel plans (to avoid traffic jams etc).
maybe the indelible ink has got something to do with it too, with evryone making a fuss about how truly/falsely indelible it actually is.. and all the blue (or red) finger tips u see posted by voters on FB and Instagram etc.
(i have to insert this story here too, just heard it from a friend --> apparently quite a number of voters marked the X on the voting papers using the ink on the fingers thinking that was what the ink was for!!!! aha-ha-ha..!!)
i know of some non-voters who actually felt "left behind" this time around because of their blue-less bare fingers on that day.
plus i think the fact that we have FB and Twitter etc now(we had them on the last elections too but they werent utilized as widely and openly as they are today) which makes even the most ignorant and disinterested people (like moi)more aware of what is going on. the atmosphere that day was simply.. i dont know.."electric:? i guess..(no pun intended ;)) with evryone waiting anxiously for the results.. and it did take a ridiculously long time for the results to come out too!
but hey. like i mentioned earlier, this is not a political post.
i mentioned somewhere in my last few postings that 2011 was a blur for me what with the final exams and my mom getting breast cancer and then being transferred back to mlka.
then 2012 came and went.
i completed my masters (finally!) and have now been transferred further south in JB to serve.
work-wise is the same.. cant expect to not be busy when you are in the medical field, but the are some differences of course. different colleagues, different bosses, different staff, different hospital. different city.
my mom completed her chemo and radiotherapy mid last year and was well for awhile but unfortunately now has a recurrence and needs to do chemo again before we proceed for a mastectomy. we are obviously all bummed about that but she is otherwise still up and about around the house so we are still very thankful.
i got married (yea, okay, you can perhaps say "finally!" here too.. to others it may seem that way but to me i think the word "actually" is probably more befitting...as in "i actually got married!".. yes i couldnt believe it myself!)
no. it wasnt an arranged marriage.
no. i wasnt drugged/comatose/hypnotized/held at gunpoint.
no. it wasnt the sultan of a certain state as i planned.
yes. i fell in love with another commoner.
yes. i was in love.
and yes. i am still in love.
now, with the change of title to my name (i'm still amused by the realization that i am an actual Puan now when the salespeople address me randomly as that..heee), it is interesting to note the change to people's reaction to anything that i do or say as well.
when i was single, the feedbacks i get to almost anything is "dah kawen belum" or "bila u nak kawen ni?"
eg. (Me vs P (people))
1. Me: Hi.. lamanya tak jumpa!!
P: Yelah..u nampak sama macam dulu...dah kawen belum? Belum? Bila u nak kawen ni?
2. Me: Hi..lama tak jumpa!!
P: Yelah..u nampak lain sekarang.. still belum kawen? Bila u nak kawen ni?
3. P: Happy birthday!
Me: Thank you!!
P: Bila u nak kawen ni?
4. Me: Selamat hari raya!
P: Selamat hari raya. Bila u nak kawen ni?
5. Me: Nice wedding.
P: Yelah.. bila u punya wedding pulak?"
6. P: Hey, the 47 yo singer is finally getting married! Bila u pulak nak kawen ni?
7. P: Hey, so&so is getting married-the 3rd time alrdy! Bila u pulak nak kawen ni?
8. P: Congrats dah jadi pakar... bila nak kawen pulak ni?"
9. P: Wahhh.. dah beli kereta baru... bila nak kawen pulak ni?"
10. P: Your mom has cancer? So sorry to hear that..bila u nak kawen ni?
you get the picture.
well, now that i am married.. things change.......... or have they?
eg.
1. Me: Lamanya tak jumpa!
P: Yelah.. dah ada anak? bila nak pregnant?
2. P: Happy birthday! Bila nak pregnant?
Me: Ha-lo..i got married 3 days ago (it's true.. i got married 3 days before my bday)
3. P: U transferred to JB alrdy? Dah pregnant belum?
4. P: U look like u've gained weight. Dah pregnant ke?
5. P: Sedapnya tengok food u makan (posted in FB). Dah pregnant ke?
5. P: U still drink that much coffee? When u get pregnant u cannot drink anymore haaa..
6. P: U demam? Pregnant kot...
7. P: Hey, nice new baju. Are u pregnant?
8. P: U coming back to KL to vote? Good for u. Dah pregnant belum?
9. P: U drive JB-KL-JB by yourself? Careful.. mana tau pregnant ke..
10. Your mom's cancer is back? so sorry to hear that.....so, are you pregnant yet?
..........................................................................................................................................................
shoutout to all family & friends: belated thanks for coming to the wedding, thanks for all the well wishes, here's a prayer for all of us to always love and be loved, to respect each other, to remain united, to be safe and for happiness always. ameen.
it has been a year since my last entry here, you think i would waste in on politics?
but since we mentioned it, i would just like to mention here that it was my 3rd time voting (made me feel like a veteran) and somehow, this time around, the election day and the days going to it felt really ""festive".
maybe because there were way more voters this time.. with many having to "balik kampung" to vote, plans were made to book leaves or change calls (for those of us having to do oncalls), travel plans (to avoid traffic jams etc).
maybe the indelible ink has got something to do with it too, with evryone making a fuss about how truly/falsely indelible it actually is.. and all the blue (or red) finger tips u see posted by voters on FB and Instagram etc.
(i have to insert this story here too, just heard it from a friend --> apparently quite a number of voters marked the X on the voting papers using the ink on the fingers thinking that was what the ink was for!!!! aha-ha-ha..!!)
i know of some non-voters who actually felt "left behind" this time around because of their blue-less bare fingers on that day.
plus i think the fact that we have FB and Twitter etc now(we had them on the last elections too but they werent utilized as widely and openly as they are today) which makes even the most ignorant and disinterested people (like moi)more aware of what is going on. the atmosphere that day was simply.. i dont know.."electric:? i guess..(no pun intended ;)) with evryone waiting anxiously for the results.. and it did take a ridiculously long time for the results to come out too!
but hey. like i mentioned earlier, this is not a political post.
i mentioned somewhere in my last few postings that 2011 was a blur for me what with the final exams and my mom getting breast cancer and then being transferred back to mlka.
then 2012 came and went.
i completed my masters (finally!) and have now been transferred further south in JB to serve.
work-wise is the same.. cant expect to not be busy when you are in the medical field, but the are some differences of course. different colleagues, different bosses, different staff, different hospital. different city.
my mom completed her chemo and radiotherapy mid last year and was well for awhile but unfortunately now has a recurrence and needs to do chemo again before we proceed for a mastectomy. we are obviously all bummed about that but she is otherwise still up and about around the house so we are still very thankful.
i got married (yea, okay, you can perhaps say "finally!" here too.. to others it may seem that way but to me i think the word "actually" is probably more befitting...as in "i actually got married!".. yes i couldnt believe it myself!)
no. it wasnt an arranged marriage.
no. i wasnt drugged/comatose/hypnotized/held at gunpoint.
no. it wasnt the sultan of a certain state as i planned.
yes. i fell in love with another commoner.
yes. i was in love.
and yes. i am still in love.
now, with the change of title to my name (i'm still amused by the realization that i am an actual Puan now when the salespeople address me randomly as that..heee), it is interesting to note the change to people's reaction to anything that i do or say as well.
when i was single, the feedbacks i get to almost anything is "dah kawen belum" or "bila u nak kawen ni?"
eg. (Me vs P (people))
1. Me: Hi.. lamanya tak jumpa!!
P: Yelah..u nampak sama macam dulu...dah kawen belum? Belum? Bila u nak kawen ni?
2. Me: Hi..lama tak jumpa!!
P: Yelah..u nampak lain sekarang.. still belum kawen? Bila u nak kawen ni?
3. P: Happy birthday!
Me: Thank you!!
P: Bila u nak kawen ni?
4. Me: Selamat hari raya!
P: Selamat hari raya. Bila u nak kawen ni?
5. Me: Nice wedding.
P: Yelah.. bila u punya wedding pulak?"
6. P: Hey, the 47 yo singer is finally getting married! Bila u pulak nak kawen ni?
7. P: Hey, so&so is getting married-the 3rd time alrdy! Bila u pulak nak kawen ni?
8. P: Congrats dah jadi pakar... bila nak kawen pulak ni?"
9. P: Wahhh.. dah beli kereta baru... bila nak kawen pulak ni?"
10. P: Your mom has cancer? So sorry to hear that..bila u nak kawen ni?
you get the picture.
well, now that i am married.. things change.......... or have they?
eg.
1. Me: Lamanya tak jumpa!
P: Yelah.. dah ada anak? bila nak pregnant?
2. P: Happy birthday! Bila nak pregnant?
Me: Ha-lo..i got married 3 days ago (it's true.. i got married 3 days before my bday)
3. P: U transferred to JB alrdy? Dah pregnant belum?
4. P: U look like u've gained weight. Dah pregnant ke?
5. P: Sedapnya tengok food u makan (posted in FB). Dah pregnant ke?
5. P: U still drink that much coffee? When u get pregnant u cannot drink anymore haaa..
6. P: U demam? Pregnant kot...
7. P: Hey, nice new baju. Are u pregnant?
8. P: U coming back to KL to vote? Good for u. Dah pregnant belum?
9. P: U drive JB-KL-JB by yourself? Careful.. mana tau pregnant ke..
10. Your mom's cancer is back? so sorry to hear that.....so, are you pregnant yet?
..........................................................................................................................................................
shoutout to all family & friends: belated thanks for coming to the wedding, thanks for all the well wishes, here's a prayer for all of us to always love and be loved, to respect each other, to remain united, to be safe and for happiness always. ameen.
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